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		<title>Vagina.  Got your attention, now check this out&#8230;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Eve Ensler is a rock star.  She is adding wonderful new pieces to the Vagina Monologues from trans women.  Love it, hope you enjoy it too! http://www.logotv.com/video/beautiful-daughters/1623325/playlist.jhtml<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kellystorck.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9482326&amp;post=67&amp;subd=kellystorck&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eve Ensler is a rock star.  She is adding wonderful new pieces to the Vagina Monologues from trans women.  Love it, hope you enjoy it too!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.logotv.com/video/beautiful-daughters/1623325/playlist.jhtml">http://www.logotv.com/video/beautiful-daughters/1623325/playlist.jhtml</a></p>
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		<title>It Will Get Better.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2010 01:08:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here is a link to a great YouTube project to let LGBT teens know that &#8220;it gets better&#8221;.  It follows the suicide of a gay teen who was bullied by his peers for being gay. What an honor to help support and know all my clients who have lived with hard questions and heavy hearts [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kellystorck.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9482326&amp;post=65&amp;subd=kellystorck&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here is a link to a great YouTube project to let LGBT teens know that &#8220;it gets better&#8221;.  It follows the suicide of a gay teen who was bullied by his peers for being gay.</p>
<p>What an honor to help support and know all my clients who have lived with hard questions and heavy hearts about who they are and who they love.  We must open the door to promise, safety, love and acceptance for EVERYONE.  Bigotry will not win.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2010/09/21/Dan_Savage_Aims_to_Save_LGBT_Kids//?ref=nf">http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2010/09/21/Dan_Savage_Aims_to_Save_LGBT_Kids//?ref=nf</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2010 14:43:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us. And when we bring what is within us out into the world, miracles happen. -Ralph Waldo Emerson I believe we are all strong beyond measure, even when we feel embarrassingly weak, and that we have a natural tendency to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kellystorck.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9482326&amp;post=60&amp;subd=kellystorck&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<div style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:small;"><img src="http://www.gurteen.com/gurteen/gurteen.nsf/id/L001345/$File/left-quote.png" border="0" alt="" width="21" height="15" /> What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us. And when we bring what is within us out into the world, miracles happen. <img src="http://www.gurteen.com/gurteen/gurteen.nsf/id/L001346/$File/right-quote.png" border="0" alt="" width="21" height="15" /></span></div>
<div style="text-align:right;"><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:small;">-Ralph Waldo Emerson</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:small;">I believe we are all strong beyond measure, even when we feel embarrassingly weak, and that we have a natural tendency to rise up to what lies before us.  This power of the human spirit often leaves me in awe.  I bear witness to great tragedies through the stories of my clients and I see (and feel) a full range of raw, gripping emotions.  As a therapist, my hope is to awaken people to their own energy and help them plug into this innate, core strength.  You&#8217;ve felt it before, right?  Life will always bring us uncertainty, struggle and pain.  The real power is deciding what to do then.  Lying down is not an option.<br />
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		<title>A Thought from the Universe</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 00:23:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[An email sent to me by a wise woman&#8230; The slate&#8217;s been wiped clean, the past has released its grip, and before you sparkles eternity, yearning for direction. All that lies between you and the life of your dreams is just one teeny, tiny, gentle, little rule. Only one condition, prerequisite, principle that matters. It&#8217;s [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kellystorck.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9482326&amp;post=56&amp;subd=kellystorck&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An email sent to me by a wise woman&#8230;<br />
<span style="font-family:Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;color:#000066;font-size:small;"> The slate&#8217;s been wiped clean, the past has released  its grip, and before you sparkles eternity, yearning for  direction. All that lies between you and the life of your dreams is  just one teeny, tiny, gentle, little rule. Only one  condition, prerequisite, principle that matters.</span> <span style="font-family:Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;color:#000066;font-size:small;"> </span><br />
<span style="font-family:Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;color:#000066;font-size:small;"> It&#8217;s not love. It&#8217;s not God. It&#8217;s not fate, or luck, or karma.  It&#8217;s not complicated or esoteric, and you needn&#8217;t  sacrifice, plead, or pray to invoke it. It&#8217;s the only rule  that&#8217;s ever existed, and it&#8217;s the only one that will ever  exist. No reality can exist in its absence. For its mere  existence, you are. With its existence, the power, the  light, and the way are revealed. It&#8217;s your purpose to  discover it, and it&#8217;s your destiny to master it. It&#8217;s the  beginning, the middle, and the end. The Alpha and the  Omega. The be-all and end-all of every wish, desire,  and dream, and you are its keeper. </span><br />
<span style="font-family:Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;color:#000066;font-size:small;"> </span> <span style="font-family:Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;color:#000066;font-size:small;"> This caveat of all caveats is that absolutely nothing  can be anything until it is first imagined. Thoughts  become things, nothing else does. And so, it&#8217;s the thoughts you  choose from here on out that will become the things  and events of your life, forevermore. It is written in  stone. There&#8217;s no other way. It&#8217;s your ticket to  anywhere you can dream of. Your passport to  abundance, health, and friendships. The key to the  palace of your wildest dreams. </span><br />
<span style="font-family:Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;color:#000066;font-size:small;"> </span> <span style="font-family:Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;color:#000066;font-size:small;"> Your thoughts, and your thoughts alone, will set you in  motion. Your thoughts will yield the inspiration,  creativity, and determination you need. Your thoughts  will orchestrate the magic and inspire the Universe.  Your thoughts will carry you to the finish line if you just  keep thinking them. Never give up. Never waiver,  doubt, or ask. </span><br />
<span style="font-family:Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;color:#000066;font-size:small;"> </span> <span style="font-family:Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;color:#000066;font-size:small;"> Aim high. </span><br />
<span style="font-family:Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;color:#000066;font-size:small;"> </span> <span style="font-family:Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;color:#000066;font-size:small;"> That you&#8217;ve even received this <em>Note</em>, that you&#8217;re  able to read it through, means you are so close. So  extraordinarily close. The hardest work has been  done. The wars have already been waged. The  lessons have already been learned. The journey, now,  is for home. </span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[January 25, 2010 Psychodynamic Psychotherapy Brings Lasting Benefits through Self-Knowledge Patients Continue to Improve After Treatment Ends, New Study Finds WASHINGTON—Psychodynamic psychotherapy is effective for a wide range of mental health symptoms, including depression, anxiety, panic and stress-related physical ailments, and the benefits of the therapy grow after treatment has ended, according to new research [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kellystorck.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9482326&amp;post=53&amp;subd=kellystorck&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<h4>January 25, 2010</h4>
<h2>Psychodynamic Psychotherapy Brings Lasting Benefits through  Self-Knowledge</h2>
<p><em>Patients Continue to Improve After Treatment Ends, New Study Finds</em></p>
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<p>WASHINGTON—Psychodynamic psychotherapy is effective for a wide range of  mental health symptoms, including depression, anxiety, panic and stress-related  physical ailments, and the benefits of the therapy grow after treatment has  ended, according to new research published by the American Psychological  Association.</p>
<p>Psychodynamic therapy focuses on the psychological roots of emotional  suffering. Its hallmarks are self-reflection and self-examination, and the use  of the relationship between therapist and patient as a window into problematic  relationship patterns in the patient’s life. Its goal is not only to alleviate  the most obvious symptoms but to help people lead healthier lives.</p>
<p>“The American public has been told that only newer, symptom-focused  treatments like cognitive behavior therapy or medication have scientific  support,” said study author Jonathan Shedler, PhD, of the University of Colorado  Denver School of Medicine. “The actual scientific evidence shows that  psychodynamic therapy is highly effective. The benefits are at least as large as  those of other psychotherapies, and they last.”</p>
<p>To reach these conclusions, Shedler reviewed eight meta-analyses comprising  160 studies of psychodynamic therapy, plus nine meta-analyses of other  psychological treatments and antidepressant medications. Shedler focused on  <em>effect size</em>, which measures the amount of change produced by each  treatment. An effect size of 0.80 is considered a large effect in psychological  and medical research. One major meta-analysis of psychodynamic therapy included  1,431 patients with a range of mental health problems and found an effect size  of 0.97 for overall symptom improvement (the therapy was typically once per week  and lasted less than a year). The effect size <em>increased</em> by 50 percent,  to 1.51, when patients were re-evaluated nine or more months after therapy  ended. The effect size for the most widely used antidepressant medications is a  more modest 0.31. The findings are published in the February issue of  <em>American Psychologist</em>, the flagship journal of the American  Psychological Association.</p>
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<p>The eight meta-analyses, representing the best available scientific evidence  on psychodynamic therapy, all showed substantial treatment benefits, according  to Shedler. Effect sizes were impressive even for personality disorders—deeply  ingrained maladaptive traits that are notoriously difficult to treat, he said.  “The consistent trend toward larger effect sizes at follow-up suggests that  psychodynamic psychotherapy sets in motion psychological processes that lead to  ongoing change, even after therapy has ended,” Shedler said. “In contrast, the  benefits of other ‘empirically supported’ therapies tend to diminish over time  for the most common conditions, like depression and generalized anxiety.”</p>
<p>“Pharmaceutical companies and health insurance companies have a financial  incentive to promote the view that mental suffering can be reduced to lists of  symptoms, and that treatment means managing those symptoms and little else. For  some specific psychiatric conditions, this makes sense,” he added. “But more  often, emotional suffering is woven into the fabric of the person’s life and  rooted in relationship patterns, inner contradictions and emotional blind spots.  This is what psychodynamic therapy is designed to address.”</p>
<p>Shedler acknowledged that there are many more studies of other psychological  treatments (other than psychodynamic), and that the developers of other  therapies took the lead in recognizing the importance of rigorous scientific  evaluation. “Accountability is crucial,” said Shedler. “But now that research is  putting psychodynamic therapy to the test, we are not seeing evidence that the  newer therapies are more effective.”</p>
<p>Shedler also noted that existing research does not adequately capture the  benefits that psychodynamic therapy aims to achieve. “It is easy to measure  change in acute symptoms, harder to measure deeper personality changes. But it  can be done.”</p>
<p>The research also suggests that when other psychotherapies are effective, it  may be because they include unacknowledged psychodynamic elements. “When you  look past therapy ‘brand names’ and look at what the effective therapists are  actually <em>doing</em>, it turns out they are doing what psychodynamic  therapists have always done—facilitating self-exploration, examining emotional  blind spots, understanding relationship patterns.” Four studies of therapy for  depression used actual recordings of therapy sessions to study what therapists  said and did that was effective or ineffective. The more the therapists acted  like psychodynamic therapists, the better the outcome, Shedler said. “This was  true regardless of the kind of therapy the therapists believed they were  providing.”</p>
<p><strong>Article:</strong> “The Efficacy of Psychodynamic Psychotherapy,”  Jonathan K. Shedler, PhD, University of Colorado Denver School of Medicine;  <em>American Psychologist</em>, Vol. 65. No.2.</p>
<p>Contact <strong>Jonathan Shedler, PhD</strong>, by <a title="Jonathan Shedler" href="mailto:jonathan@shedler.com">e-mail</a> or by phone at (303) 715-9099 and by cell at (970)  948-4576.</p>
<p><em>The American Psychological Association, in Washington, D.C., is the  largest scientific and professional organization representing psychology in the  United States and is the world’s largest association of psychologists. APA’s  membership includes more than 150,000 researchers, educators, clinicians,  consultants and students. Through its divisions in 54 subfields of psychology  and affiliations with 60 state, territorial and Canadian provincial  associations, APA works to advance psychology as a science, as a profession and  as a means of promoting health, education and human  welfare.</em></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Your anger and damage and grief are the way to the truth.  We don&#8217;t have much truth to express unless we have gone into those rooms and closets and woods and abysses that we were told not to go in to.  When we have gone in and looked around for a long while, just breathing [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kellystorck.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9482326&amp;post=50&amp;subd=kellystorck&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#0b5394;"><em>Your anger and damage and grief are the way to the truth.  We don&#8217;t have much truth to express unless we have gone into those rooms and closets and woods and abysses that we were told not to go in to.  When we have gone in and looked around for a long while, just breathing and finally taking it in&#8211;then we will be able to speak in our own voice and to stay in the present moment. </em></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#0b5394;"><em> And that moment is HOME.</em> </span></p>
<p style="text-align:right;"><span style="color:#0b5394;"><span style="font-size:xx-small;">-Anne Lamott </span></span></p>
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		<title>Questions.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jan 2010 21:15:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check out this website a client of mine turned me onto&#8211;http://www.marcandangel.com/2009/07/13/50-questions-that-will-free-your-mind/ It holds 50 questions that &#8220;will free your mind&#8221;.  I like it a lot&#8212;think the questions can help us focus on what we really care about and what really matters to us.  Open your journal&#8230;<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kellystorck.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9482326&amp;post=47&amp;subd=kellystorck&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Check out this website a client of mine turned me onto&#8211;<a href="http://http://www.marcandangel.com/2009/07/13/50-questions-that-will-free-your-mind/">http://www.marcandangel.com/2009/07/13/50-questions-that-will-free-your-mind/ </a></p>
<p>It holds 50 questions that &#8220;will free your mind&#8221;.  I like it a lot&#8212;think the questions can help us focus on what we really care about and what really matters to us.  Open your journal&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Just Breathe&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 18:19:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am a big believer in the power of our breath.  What a fabulous tool&#8211;always accessible to us, intrinsically tied to our body, and an amazing pathway to our core (or soul or spirit).  Yes, everyone breathes and you don&#8217;t even have to think about it.  But if you really pay attention to that process [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kellystorck.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9482326&amp;post=41&amp;subd=kellystorck&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a big believer in the power of our breath.  What a fabulous tool&#8211;always accessible to us, intrinsically tied to our body, and an amazing pathway to our core (or soul or spirit).  Yes, everyone breathes and you don&#8217;t even have to think about it.  But if you really pay attention to that process you take for granted, you may find that one of your core life supports is in need of a serious overhaul.</p>
<p>There is a right way to breathe!  In fact, there are several right ways to breathe!  A couple of my helpful tips&#8230;  One, breathe into your belly first and feel it fill up then your chest will rise a bit.  Many of us breathe strictly within our chest and that sends signals of potential danger to the rest of our body.  Our body can not relax when it is being told to be vigilant and cautious.   Two, imagine breathing in what you need (peace, love, compassion) and breathing out what doesn&#8217;t serve you (judgment, shame, hate).  Finally, PRACTICE!  Make time every day to be aware of your breath and give yourself some nice, nourishing and relaxing puffs.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a great set of exercises from Dr. Weil to help you on your way.  Happy Breathing!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.drweil.com/drw/u/ART00521/three-breathing-exercises.html">http://www.drweil.com/drw/u/ART00521/three-breathing-exercises.html</a></p>
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		<title>Looking for salvation?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Something to think about if you are seeking some savin&#8217;&#8230; &#8220;If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you.&#8221;<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kellystorck.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9482326&amp;post=37&amp;subd=kellystorck&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Something to think about if you are seeking some savin&#8217;&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8220;If you bring forth what is within you,</p>
<p>what you bring forth will save you.</p>
<p>If you do not bring forth what is within you,</p>
<p>what you do not bring forth will destroy you.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Begin Within</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have this good friend who noticed that one of my bumper stickers was outdated and needed replacing.  I was fixin&#8217; to get around to it but weeks turned into months until her &#8220;suggestions&#8221; appeared outside my office.  She had bought me three new stickers to select from&#8211;this was going to happen and happen now.  [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=kellystorck.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9482326&amp;post=30&amp;subd=kellystorck&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have this good friend who noticed that one of my bumper stickers was outdated and needed replacing.  I was fixin&#8217; to get around to it but weeks turned into months until her &#8220;suggestions&#8221; appeared outside my office.  She had bought me three new stickers to select from&#8211;this was going to happen and happen now.  I like a good push every now and again.  She had clearly made it her mission to push me right into my next statement and she nailed it with two bright yellow words&#8230;BEGIN WITHIN.</p>
<p>On one hand, so simple.  On the other hand, simple enough to be profound.  At least to me.  I think what most of us need are reminders, not the &#8220;I never heard of that before&#8221; kind of lessons but little nudges to remember what we already possess that is so valuable.  I see much of my work in therapy like that.</p>
<p>I am the delivery girl for reminders.  Folks sometimes come to me believing that they must undergo some overwhelming and drastic changes in their behaviors, feelings, or character.  They have dragged themselves in for some painful extraction or impossible rebuilding project.  You can imagine the looks on their faces and their natural hesitancy to believe they are actually going to pay to undergo this work.  This is not a great moment for either of us and to both of our satisfaction, we soon (sometimes in a few minutes, sometimes in a few sessions) get to watch the change happen.  Some very welcome relief and joy wash over them as they discover that they have just lost touch with a part of themselves that has already been created, is right there for them, and is waiting for some game time.  Score!</p>
<p>It is always true, despite the times we wish it weren&#8217;t so, that YOU CAN ONLY CHANGE YOURSELF.  <strong>You</strong> have to find pathways to understand what is happening for <strong>you</strong>.  <strong>You</strong> need to meet <strong>yourself</strong> right where <strong>you</strong> are and if <strong>you</strong> don&#8217;t like that spot, the good news is that <strong>you</strong> get to decide that <strong>you</strong> won&#8217;t be staying there.  That is beginning within!  Once you&#8217;re there, you get to decide what works for you (and what doesn&#8217;t), explore your options and make some dreams.  By dreams I mean the kind that come true when you lean into them.</p>
<p>And next?  Begin within and repeat.  Begin within and repeat.  There is no rest for the discovering.  You will awaken to the gift of what it is to live life intentionally and you will feel hopeful as you recognize that this growing thing lasts a whole lifetime.<br />
So get in there&#8230;</p>
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